So very sorry for the tragic loss of Matthew. Although your hearts are filled with pain and sorrow, please know that you gain comfort from God's promise to reunite us with our loved ones ; never having to say goodbye again. Jesus is going to make this earth the problem-free paradise that his Father intended it to be. Revelation 21:4 says: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." ; and John 5:28, 29: "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice " and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, ...." please visit jw.org , the Bible -based writings found there can give grieving family much comfort and hope for the future ,when at that time ,the wonderful promises of our Creator will be fulfilled. Most sincerely D mullins